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Through My Eyes: Early Reflection on Empowering Adolescent Girls in the Face of Fragility

December 22, 2025

by Sylvia Maru, Program Manager, Keep Girls Dreaming

 

Stepping into Kakuma Refugee Camp for the first time is an experience that stays with you. The heat, the dust, the hustle and bustle, the resilience stamped into every face, and especially the young ones. I have just begun my journey with Keep Girls Dreaming here, but even in the early days, I am already learning how fragile, complex and powerful the lives of adolescent girls and young women truly are.

In Kakuma, I met young women who dropped out of secondary school at 16 or 17, not because they lacked dreams, but because life interrupted them. Many got married early, not out of desire, but out of survival. Some became caregivers long before they had a chance to be children. Their stories stay with me, quite reminders of how deeply context shapes the future of a girl.

 

Where Childhood meets Survival

During a visit to one of the safe spaces for children, what struck me most was not the noise of play or the laughter. It was hunger. The food shortage was visible, tangible. I watched what was to be shared amongst the children, and it was little. I couldn’t help imagining how much harder it must be for adolescent girls who are navigating bodily changes, self-awareness and responsibilities no teenager should carry.

Food, a basic need that many of us take for granted, is a privilege. Hunger changes everything: mood, concentration, school attendance, confidence and dignity. It chips away at childhood bit by bit.

 

What Happens When a Girl Starts to Bloom Without Support

As I observed the girls around me, some shy, some bold, some curious all trying their best to adapt, my mind wondered to their teenage years. When their bodies begin to change.

Will they have someone to explain what is happening?

Will they have menstrual products during their periods?

Will they understand that their bodies are blossoming and not betraying them?

Will they feel shame, or will they embrace it with dignity?

These questions sit heavy in my heart because adolescence is supposed to be a time of discovery and guidance, not confusion and silence.

 

The Quiet Potential I See Everywhere

Even during struggle, I see potential shining through in a girl who wants still walks to the safe space every morning, in one who dreams of becoming a nurse, in the way they help each other laugh together and find joy in the smallest things.

These girls carry bigger futures than their circumstances. What they need is support, safety and a chance to simple dignity that allows them to dream beyond survival.

 

My Role Begins with Seeing, Truly Seeing

I am still learning, still listening. I don’t have years of stories yet, but I already feel the weight and beauty of the work ahead.

Empowerment, I realize it begins with presence. Being there, observing, acknowledging vulnerabilities without judgement and imagining what it could be like if a girl is given a small opportunity.

One thing is clear, too; I do not want the potential of these girls to be lost to hunger, early marriage, fear or lack of dignity.

When you empower a girl in a fragile context, you are not just changing her day, you are changing her destiny.

 

USCRI, founded in 1911, is a non-governmental, not-for-profit international organization committed to working on behalf of refugees and immigrants and their transition to a dignified life. 

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